Kamasutra and computers funny point of view

Posted by Dating

March 5, 2008

The Kamasutra, or Position Impossible, is the most misread sex manual of all time; so misread that it is in danger of giving sex manuals a bad name.The Kamasutra (Kama Sutra for Her: Ancient Erotic Techniques Reinvented for a Woman’s Pleasure) is a scientific study of human behaviour, a conduct book for playboys, a philosophical treatise, a condensation of all known information on sex and sex culture, and a practical guide to penetration written for the highly aestheticised and sophisticated society of the ‘nagaraka’: city slickers who ‘incline to the ways of the world and regard playing as their one and only concern’. The Kamasutra, like its readers, took pleasure seriously. The original book, a third-century defence of pleasure for Hindu urban sophisticates, written ‘in chastity and meditation’ by a mysterious figure called Vatsayana, is a world away from the stag- and hen-night staples such as Cosmo Kama Sutra, Pocket Karma Sutra, Karma Sutra Tangaand Red-Hot Sex.

Sex as described by Vatsayana is ‘mannered, moral, social, and above all civilised’, in the words of James McConnachie; the association between Kamasutra and extreme sexual athleticism is one of the many effects of the book’s tedious history of bowdlerisation. Readers will be disappointed to learn that Vatsayana described not 64 positions but 64 kama-kalas, or moods and modes of love-making.

Today, computer funs like internet, programming, games etc. more than people. Asexual (asexuality) people have the same emotional needs as anyone else, and like in the sexual community we vary widely in how we fulfill those needs. Some asexual people are happier on their own, others are happiest with a group of close friends. Other asexual people have a desire to form more intimate romantic relationships, and will date and seek long-term partnerships. Asexual people are just as likely to date sexual people as we are to date each other.

Sexy gambling

Sexual or nonsexual, all relationships are made up of the same basic stuff. Communication, closeness, fun, humor, excitement and trust all happen just as much in sexual relationships as in nonsexual ones. Unlike sexual people, asexual people are given few expectations about the way that our intimate relationships will work. Figuring out how to flirt, to be intimate, or to be monogamous in a nonsexual relationships can be challenging, but free of sexual expectations we can form relationships in ways that are grounded in our individual needs and desires.

What do you think - can you see you sexuality in the future ?

Kamasutra positions

Kamasutra position of balance