Attraction vs Quality - How to win the woman of your dreams!

Posted by Dating

April 21, 2008

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This post is written by D3N1S.

Interesting title, right?

I know what you are thinking:

“How can this be serious? Reading something on the net is not possible to transform me into a quality and attractive man that can seduce women.?!?!?”

“Can i actually learn this way?”

“It must be something else. This is not the way to learn this stuff”

I know what is going on in your head. I know how your brain is operating. I know more about you than you do.

Your brain is working all the time. It is scanning for something out of the ordinary. Your brain is designed to filter the boring stuff. It is an interesting question how your brain knows what is important? Imagine you are out of your house, walking down the same street you pass through everyday and suddenly you see two lions heading your way. Will your brain operate the same as it operates when you pass by the same boring stuff you are used to see everyday? NO!

The emotional part of it cranks up. Chemical reactions surge. Your body language is immediately affected by what is going on in your head.

Now imagine you are at the attic and you open some dull smelly 1007 pages book. You see nothing but a black ink on something like a white paper. This is how the whole book is organized. The purpose of reading this book is to help you get a better job so that makes this book a quality one. It guarantees that you will make the rest of your life more vivid. This is THE ONLY thing that makes you start reading the first page of the monotonous structured book. After you read 17-25 pages your brain will want to make you a favour. It will want to save its resourses for something more catch-a-fire-like. Your brain does not want to engage in analysing the rest 982 dull, dry and boring pages of the QUALITY book.

Then the logic kicks in and tries to make a way to tell your brain that no matter how low emotional level is engaged it must continue scanning the rest of the book. As i said it just TRIES but most of the time nothing happens:)

Now lets get another book on the same toppic that is even more pages - 1008. Increadible. The moment you open the book you see something that gets yout attention.It is a picture. If you read the pages you will find out more about it. Then you open the next page. Something else catches yout attention. It is the red ink and some font that looks like one from pensil. Your brain wants to find out something else so you browse throught the whole book while reading it.

What is the difference between the both scenarious?

The first one is all about QUALITY ( It makes you open the book .. and then close it)

The seconf one is about ATTRACTION.

Quality is different from Attraction. They are not the SAME. Quality can be a subset of Attraction but they will never be equal. Attraction is a word that is made by the devil. Attraction is a very powerful emotional feeling that can make you do irrational things even against your own good. Respect it.

Now lets make your brain work the way we talked about earlier.

The laws of the quality male:

1) I was born to survive and work hard to help other people with unabilities. I feel good when i make somebody feel better.

2) I do not think about my bed. I go out and work hard to improve myself. Each second i choose not to train somebody else is traing to win over me.

3) If i see somebody that can not cope with his task i offer him my help.

4) If i miss the morning i miss the day.

5) I think about how to finish the work i have so i can make the tommorow work today.

and so on…. we stop here because your brain does not want to analyze the rest of it. Trust me.

The laws of the attractive male:

1) I was born tired so i live to have a rest during my life.

2) I love my bed just like my self.

3) I have a rest during the day so i can sleep better during the night.

4) I do not work - there is a chance to catch some disease. Working will kill me.

5) If i see somebody to have a rest i go to help him.

6) I work less than i can. What i can do i offer it to somebody else to do it.

7) Only the summer shadow can save me. Nobody has died from too much break.

I will not work today. Working can kill me.

9) If something kicks in and i feel a need to work i sit down for a minute and the feeling is gone.

10) If i see somebody to celebrate i go to offer my help. If he starts to work i go away so i am not an obstacle.

See the difference?

Your brain was much more engaged during the second part of the test. Because the emotions kicks in. It is not the same boring shit you see everyday.

So the next time you see the girl of your dreams be sure to show the attractive side of your personality first and THEN make sure you show her that you have some quality.

Hope you liked it.

Your friend: D3N1S