Let’s Talk About Naturals

Posted by Dating

April 29, 2008

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Hey, guys!

Look, since my last post about being a naturally cool guy, I’ve been thinking a lot about it. So I am going to share my thoughts about the topic and as usual it should be fun. Tell me what you think about that, later.

What does dating and women have to do with those, so called Naturals?!

I remember when I first heard the word naturals in this world of dating. Naturals are men, who are amazing with women. Those are the guys, who get the most of the chicks. Said otherwise, it’s known that only 10% of men, sleep with 90% of the women around them. The other 90% of men, wait to “get lucky”. Naturals are charming leaders, alpha males, romantics. They spark attraction upon meeting and pull women like it’s not a big deal.

One of the most interesting things here is…

that when you ask a natural, how he does it, you won’t really get a good explanation. For them it is obvious and having that success with women is their everyday reality. I mean even when I write these posts I wonder a lot. Sometimes I think “Well, that’s obvious! Should I write that or not?!”, while I later find out, that it’s not for most men.

How can these man help YOU!

Just go out and finds some guys who are naturals at this. And by the way, you probably know at least one such guy at the moment! Befriend them! Hang out with them and you are going to see their reality. Once you see what’s possible, you are very likely to succeed yourself. Don’t hesitate to ask them questions and be patient.

Your path to become a natural…

Well, if you are here then you are on your way to improve your dating life. You will soon find, or probably you’ve already found the community of men, that help each other about it. Call it Seduction Community, or Pickup Community, whatever! Just get some more info. I encourage you to get some products to have a basic ground. David DeAngelo is great for that. Oh, and don’t forget to read the Hot Alpha Female Blog - you rarely can find a woman who can express herself on that topic that well!

First start by improving your Inner Game. It will be a lot easier for you if you get the confidence all right, and get rid of all those “demons” that live deep in you.

Learn some techniques, but don’t get lost in those. Fake it until you make it. After that just do what works for you. Modify them so they can suite your personality. I mean, yeah, the Mystery Method is great! … for Mystery! You can’t become him ultimately…

Where am I…

Right now, I have integrated all that stuff in my life and keep my focus on more important stuff,

At first I worked a lot and I really mean it - on my inner game. It surely takes time, but it pays a lot later. Normally I like stuff about Evolution, Psychology and Human Behavior, so I found it to be really interesting anyway.

After that I noticed the great improvement. I dated girls, that I thought I will never be able to! It was all cool.

Then I started learning techniques. My problem is that I got a little too much into it that I should have. The thing is, that I was craving for more canned material, more than I would normally need. So I became a bit unnatural. After some time when I noticed the problem I stopped and started paying more attention on having fun.

I created my techniques, or modified others to suit me. Now I don’t even need them, as I can interact with women just fine without them.

Not a Natural … yet!

So remember - Fake it ’till you make it!