Where is partner communication - build a relationship

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August 1, 2008

Reading and thinking about it, the first thing that happens to us is whether we are dealing with an evolution in relations partner. During the day we support grueling workdays and when it comes the rest get home and we find the usual chores, child care, etc.. As a result, think about the rest either “tired on the couch” to watch television or simply listening to background the rest of the news presenter. Possibly we have hence the quiz with the question of many of the problems of couples today, we have little time for relationships, let alone for sex, relegating it previously gave all the time possible to something almost secondary. Now we give priority to work and we inevitably passes bill, making the stability of the couple will suffer seriously.

So it is becoming increasingly normal know couples who opt for a solution that involves more “comfort”: not live as a couple, being only on weekends. The rest of the week everyone living in your house and dedicated to their business and personal chores. This way of relating makes it increasingly difficult to get a couple relationship stable and committed, because there is freedom of himself to the burden of possible tasks and obligations that entails, for example, have children and a home to meet . This is because we do not want to abandon things that we consider most important and, above all, because they are so long that the workdays to get home so that “we asked the body” is above the rest even sex. This type of coexistence is gaining many supporters, making it a “a la carte” where our cousins lifestyle personnel, our profession and professional success to the possible resignation posed by the more traditional life as a couple. Is this a new formula partner? Does Relations pair 2.0?

If we can not see us throughout the day, if the communication is almost non-existent and our work is more important than the relationship with our partner, it is normal for the type of relationships evolve towards a new model you are looking for that balance between “freedom” and personal time and the need for emotional and sexual relationships that are undoubtedly essential for the proper functioning of the couple and the individual himself. With this background it is logical to think that neither thousand “Valentine” and hundreds of arrows from Cupid can sustain a relationship.

Although we think that sex by itself does not build a relationship, we know that it’s very important part of the couple and fundamental element of our communication, but that sex for sex as Manuel Vicent said: “sex is only a cramp if is not endowed with mystery. ” While it is true that without sex neither can maintain a relationship for a long time. There is scientific evidence that our brains produce endorphins about when we love, being equivalent effect to take two aspirins. That we have a fabulous choice but to the popular phrase “Heaven, not tonight, my head hurts a lot.”

Tomorrow we celebrate the holy day of this increasingly commercial invented shopping malls, Valentine; relief remembrance for those who always forget and not remember its average orange if a date marked on schedule does not get a warning to remind you have a record with his “amorcito.” If we read newspapers these days or see television bombard us with proposals and ideas to surprise and please our partner. For me personally I do not seem bad if this were not something passenger and perhaps something “forced” given the time and was something less commercial, in order to become a habit in our normal relationship. That is why we intend to “break the routine” day to day and skip the obligations necessary for surprise as far as possible to our partner not a day like Valentine’s Day (not bad), but every day of our relationship together with our partner.

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